Is Your Boyfriend Not Listening To You When You Vent?

Are Your Girls Tired Of Giving You Advice About The Same Guy Every Other Week? 

Do You Need Advice On Things That You Just Don’t Want To Share With Your Family & Friends?

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Answers So Far..

  • Someone asked:
    on August 13, 2022 7:14 pm
    Do you have any good book Recommendations On womans self growth
    • SLC replied:
      on August 18, 2022 1:21 am
      The Secret, Untethered Soul, You are a badass, Manifest Now, Inner Glimpse, I am that Girl, The Power of Now, Atomic Habits, Girl Code, Feeding the Soul, Goddess Solutions
  • Someone asked:
    on August 13, 2022 2:19 pm
    How to find my Purpose? How to find why im Here for? I Have this feeling Of void and i feel stuck in career (tho things are moving But really slow) mainly because i feel im in an Unhealthy Environment living In my parents house, please advise For uplevelling in life and feeling better?
    • SLC replied:
      on August 18, 2022 3:36 am
      well you gotta start off with answering some personal questions. what are your passions? what makes you, you? what motivates or drives you? how do you see your future life? what are your goals (short/long term)? You have to search inward, the answers are really all in you. I definitely recommend that you take some time out and journal. Ask yourself these questions and really see what pops up. However, you really can’t rush the process of knowing your purpose because sometimes people don’t figure out their purpose for a long ass time. don’t beat yourself up about it. One day you could wanna be a teacher and the next day you wanna be an astronaut, that’s just how discovering yourself works. For now though, you can dig into those questions and start taking more ownership of your life. Make a vision board or a game plan and start moving according to that. I do hear what you’re saying because an unhealthy environment is a big key factor in holding us back. If you need to move out of your parents’ house, make a plan on how you’re gonna do that. Like i said, take ownership and figure out how you can remove yourself from that environment and if that’s even the best thing for you to do at the moment. We all feel stuck at times, it’s the journey of life. Learn to be patient and seek out learning you. “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you really are,” You have a lifetime to learn.
  • Someone asked:
    on August 12, 2022 5:23 pm
    I graduated early, and my boyfriend is finishing up his last year of highschool. I can’t help but overthink about what could possibly happen. we’re building more trust, so I don’t want to be “that” gf. Any advice?
    • SLC replied:
      on August 18, 2022 1:15 am
      One of the biggest components of a successful relationship is trust. If you say that you two are building more trust, then stand on that. There is no reason why you should feel like you have to constantly have to be around him if you trust him. If anything I’d say just bring up your concerns to him and hopefully, you two can have a healthy discussion that eases your worries. ps- congrats on graduating early!
  • Someone asked:
    on August 11, 2022 2:43 pm
    I Feel Like I am boy obsesed expecially since I never been in a relationship before like I still want but I focus to much on that and since I never been in one and dont have much expereince I Feel undesirable I want to chance that .what should I do ?
    • SLC replied:
      on August 12, 2022 1:10 pm
      Simple, turn that boy-obsession into a You-obsession. You’ll have plenty of time to focus on a boy when you’re actually in a relationship. Being single is the best time to focus on yourself. I know because you haven’t been in a relationship yet that you feel more curious about it, but I’m telling you, there is really nothing to obsess over. You are not undesirable, people get into their first relationship at all different ages and stages of their life. Be patient. Use this time to focus on being the best you. The best things come to you when you’re not searching/stressing over it.
  • Someone asked:
    on August 11, 2022 4:20 am
    I feel insecure about my side view/profile expecially since I have a big forhead and my eyebrows are light and in certain picture in different angles I look fucking ugly I try my Best To love these picture but I dont Know how can I. How can I feel better about my features or love myself
    • SLC replied:
      on August 12, 2022 1:05 pm
      girl, if no one has told you then I will. your big forehead is BEAUTIFUL. your eyebrows are BEAUTIFUL. your face is BEAUTIFUL. You need to start telling yourself these things on the regular. Like who deemed you ugly??? Let that shit go for real. All the baddies have big foreheads (you don’t see miss Rihanna slaying on the regular?) Your forehead was made for your face. You don’t need a smaller forehead or darker eyebrows or a smaller nose or bigger lips etc., your face was made the way it was and it SUITS YOU. point, blank, period. start embracing those features instead of ridiculing them. You’re beautiful.
  • Someone asked:
    on August 11, 2022 4:06 am
    Advice on how to decide your Career choice And how to look for universities
    • SLC replied:
      on August 12, 2022 12:59 pm
      research. research. and more RESEARCH. Google, youtube, and social media, in general, will be your best friends when helping you decide on a career path/ university. Take time out to thoroughly research specific fields you are interested in. Read about it, watch webinars, reach out to people in that field, etc., to help with your decision-making. Don’t just choose something because it pays good too, because not all money is good money. Really tap into what interests you. Most importantly, take your time. There is no rush. Don’t just get into something for the sake of getting into it. Be patient with your research! all the best xoxo
  • Someone asked:
    on August 11, 2022 4:04 am
    How to let go of things and People and not feel mad or be mad at yourself
    • SLC replied:
      on August 12, 2022 12:53 pm
      you just have to walk away. know that you’re doing it for the betterment of yourself and that there is nothing to feel guilty about. give yourself some grace, it’s okay to regret certain things or people that you allowed in your life; all that matters is that you’re letting go of them now.
  • Someone asked:
    on August 10, 2022 3:22 am
    How to put Back the Focus on yourself not only that but attract what you Want into your life
    • SLC replied:
      on August 12, 2022 12:50 pm
      it’s really simple honestly, you just literally have to dedicate time in your day/lifestyle to YOU. Implement things into your liefstyle that better you/ allow you to bring focus back onto yourself. Step away from anyone/anything that is detrimental to your personal growth and focus. In terms of attracting what you want out of life, you have to ‘act as if.’ Believe that what you want to attract is meant for you and start acting as if it is already here in real time.
  • Someone asked:
    on July 27, 2022 11:24 am
    How does love Find you? Is it really unexpected
    • SLC replied:
      on July 29, 2022 12:17 pm
      I truly believe it is unexpected. I believe it finds you when you least expect it. Don’t go searching for it. Don’t beg for it. Let it come to you when it’s supposed to.
  • Someone asked:
    on July 24, 2022 9:13 pm
    I’ve been in a Relationship for about 5 years now . we had a baby at a you g age and it has been hell only because i was I had no choice but to grow and be on my stuff for me but my child to . I had a hard Pregnancy trying to force Someone to do what they shown the didjt want to in the first place . 3 years later He claims he wants to make things woro but keeps cheating im lost myself Insecure. I gain the know and peace that i cant control what he does i can just chan myself For the sanity of my. he wants his gamil but he just keep saying how much he wants to be here and chnage but i see no actions so i keep ignoring it . I forgave cant forget but i wouldnt mind giving him the chanv to prove But my stand are diff now
    • SLC replied:
      on July 29, 2022 12:21 pm
      For the sake of you and your baby, I think you should let him go sis. The relationship is clearly toxic and seems to be in a cycle where he says he is going to change and then does the opposite. Learn to productively co-parent with him, but for the sake of your well-being and happiness, a relationship with him does not seem like the best option right now.
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